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Ann Parsons
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One day, I was riding home from Mass with a couple that I knew. They were also giving an elder a ride to her apartment. As we were driving along, this lady turned to me and says, "Who cooks for you, dear." I smiled and pointed to my rather overweight figure and said, "I do. I must be doing something right, I'm still here." Ann P. Original message:
<Slight laugh> I know this might be hard to believe, but I've taken a It's a fantastic school, and speaking for myself, I tend to exit those My Mother attempted to teach me to budget what little money I had, but I I get my first Pay Check, which was for an entire Month. I never had Needless to say, that month was a Month I still remember to this day. As for having others ask who "Dresses you in the Morning- Yes, I too have had this question, and I just tell them, I dress People are curious, and sometimes the bold ones will ask their questions. At least they ask and I can inform them with the correct answers. Do these questions bother me? Frankly Yes they do, but at the same I had a Seeing Eye Dog for about 4 years, and people actually treated me Can't tell you how often I would have someone come up and tell me they And <Slight laugh> of course, now that I am married, my Wife gets the I have an answer for this next question, but I am not going to share it Why is it that the General Public has such a Poor understanding about Grumpy Dave --
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Monte Single
What is the one thing people fear most?
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Going blind.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of Rob Hudson Sent: March-09-20 8:53 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] and moreLearning to Budget Dave <dlh007@centurylink.net> wrote: Why is it that the General Public has such a Poor understanding about You said it. Because they can't imagine how they, themselves, would cope. They have this mentality. If I can't figure it out, you can't either. This same mentality is what keeps us so unemployed, as well.
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Yes I really enjoy reading others similar life stories. It makes me feel not so alone and out of place in this world. StanB
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I agree. It’s a great topic. I’m enjoying it. It’s great to hear about others experiences and share some of my own.
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I'll let the thread continue but its close to time to ask that it be moved to the chat list. This group has a chat list anyone who is a member of this group can join and the information is in the footer of every message. The conversation can continue there while allowing the main list to return to its main purpose.
To join the chat list, send a blank e-mail to:
I have written the address exactly as it should be and I didn't end the sentence with punctuation, so you can simply copy and paste it in the to line of an e-mail.
It is usually the case that chat groups associated with groups don't have many members. But since this topic seems to have ongoing interest, joining the chat list would be the way to continue it and not causing possible friction with those who want the main list to return to its usual purpose.
The chat list has had almost no traffic for a long time so you may well see little ongoing traffic aside from this thread over time if you are worried about seeing a lot of traffic on an ongoing basis. I'll ask that this thread be stopped a few hours from now.
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Yes Monte, but remember all those cool places to hide and get in to mischief?
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Hi Ron and list,
I went to the Halifax SDchool for the blind from grades 5 to 11. The academic part of the school was excellent for the class I was in. Living in residence was freakin awful. Bells, bells, and more bells. Line ups for everything. A totally one=size fits all approach. The sixties where there were no choices. That was in
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Hi Brian and list, On 3/8/2020 11:52 AM, brian wrote:
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They Ask Me If I'm Happy; I say Yes.
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Mich Verrier
I had a friend of mine who passed away in 2012 and he said to me once the following. I was struck with this sentence
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Everyone who reads Dr. Jacob Bolotin's story will learn that blindness is no barrier to a full life and great accomplishments," said Dr. Marc Maurer, President of the National Federation of the Blind. In fact, I wouldn't be at all surprised if after I've gone, and someone mentions my name, another person will say, "Oh yeah!, wasn't that the old doc who was a friend of Mich's?" An epitaph I would treasure I have the strong feeling that Ray would agree. Cleaver Cleaver was my friend and he and I struck up a friendship that lasted for 7 yars. I still think of him offen and miss him still. We got to know one another through him fixing my pc. He was one of the only people who I can think of apart from family of korce who didn't just see me as just that blind guy I was Mich and not just that blind guy. From Mich.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of chris judge Sent: March 9, 2020 1:37 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] fake out!! My friend Travis was telling me about a year ago that one of his colleagues approached him at work and said: "Hey Travis, that was a nice thing you were doing on Saturday." Travis asked, "what nice thing was that?" His colleague responded, "Helping that blind man around the store." Travis said, "I wasn't helping him around, that's my best friend." Some people can't fathem why a sighted person would want to be friends with a blind person, lol. -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Pamela Dominguez Sent: March 9, 2020 1:04 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] fake out!! Oh, and it's just so wonderful, (not), when a stranger outside offers to help you, say, find a store, and when you get there, they expect that this stranger, who has kindly offered to help, is thought to be your caregiver. It is so embarrassing, because you have to nip that in the bud before the person starts thinking: "Oh no! What did I get myself into?" Pam. -----Original Message----- From: Shelly Kane Sent: Monday, March 09, 2020 3:36 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] fake out!! Thanks for sharing that story about your friend. That is awesome for him to be in a job and happily married and living a normal life. People put labels on the disabled and think we can't do normal things and it really frustrates me. I had a rehabilitation counselor tell my mom when I was 18 years old that I couldn't go to college and I belonged in a sheltered workshop. He wouldn't pay for school for me so I went out and paid myself and took some secretarial classes and I had A's in all of them and I got one B. I felt like throwing my transcript in his face. I will also admit that it's very hard finding employment and dating. Those are the things that I have struggled with. Shelly On 3/8/2020 3:37 PM, Pamela Dominguez wrote: Yeah! She was sure living under a rock! (smile) Pam. -- This email has been checked for viruses by AVG. https://www.avg.com
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chris judge
My friend Travis was telling me about a year ago that one of his colleagues approached him at work and said:
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"Hey Travis, that was a nice thing you were doing on Saturday." Travis asked, "what nice thing was that?" His colleague responded, "Helping that blind man around the store." Travis said, "I wasn't helping him around, that's my best friend." Some people can't fathem why a sighted person would want to be friends with a blind person, lol.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Pamela Dominguez Sent: March 9, 2020 1:04 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] fake out!! Oh, and it's just so wonderful, (not), when a stranger outside offers to help you, say, find a store, and when you get there, they expect that this stranger, who has kindly offered to help, is thought to be your caregiver. It is so embarrassing, because you have to nip that in the bud before the person starts thinking: "Oh no! What did I get myself into?" Pam. -----Original Message----- From: Shelly Kane Sent: Monday, March 09, 2020 3:36 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] fake out!! Thanks for sharing that story about your friend. That is awesome for him to be in a job and happily married and living a normal life. People put labels on the disabled and think we can't do normal things and it really frustrates me. I had a rehabilitation counselor tell my mom when I was 18 years old that I couldn't go to college and I belonged in a sheltered workshop. He wouldn't pay for school for me so I went out and paid myself and took some secretarial classes and I had A's in all of them and I got one B. I felt like throwing my transcript in his face. I will also admit that it's very hard finding employment and dating. Those are the things that I have struggled with. Shelly On 3/8/2020 3:37 PM, Pamela Dominguez wrote: Yeah! She was sure living under a rock! (smile) Pam. -- This email has been checked for viruses by AVG. https://www.avg.com
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Mary Smith
Pam, its pretty sad when one's own family is so out of touch with their child simply because they either have a disability or they could care less about their child's interests or how they feel. I don't mean to generalize but I see very few sighted people who go through what we do.
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You know, it's amazing how many people's own families are so out of touch with them and their capabilities, and what they do! Pam.
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Pamela Dominguez
Oh, and it's just so wonderful, (not), when a stranger outside offers to help you, say, find a store, and when you get there, they expect that this stranger, who has kindly offered to help, is thought to be your caregiver. It is so embarrassing, because you have to nip that in the bud before the person starts thinking: "Oh no! What did I get myself into?" Pam.
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From: Shelly Kane Sent: Monday, March 09, 2020 3:36 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] fake out!! Thanks for sharing that story about your friend. That is awesome for him to be in a job and happily married and living a normal life. People put labels on the disabled and think we can't do normal things and it really frustrates me. I had a rehabilitation counselor tell my mom when I was 18 years old that I couldn't go to college and I belonged in a sheltered workshop. He wouldn't pay for school for me so I went out and paid myself and took some secretarial classes and I had A's in all of them and I got one B. I felt like throwing my transcript in his face. I will also admit that it's very hard finding employment and dating. Those are the things that I have struggled with. Shelly On 3/8/2020 3:37 PM, Pamela Dominguez wrote: Yeah! She was sure living under a rock! (smile) Pam. -- This email has been checked for viruses by AVG. https://www.avg.com
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chris judge
Quite welcome.
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Sent: March 9, 2020 12:42 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Outlook opening up to a specific inbox
Thank you Chris. That did the trick. From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of chris judge
Hi. I had to do this recently. Here’s what I did and it worked.
Go to options under the file menu. Arrow down to advanced and tab over to outlook start and exit. Browse to the mailbox you want to open to and chooss it. I didn’t go any where near my data file.
From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Steven Johnson
I have 2 email accounts, one for work and the other for personal email. By default, mine opens up to my work email’s inbox, but I would like to change it to open up with my personal one. I read where I have to change my default email under the data file tab as well as the email tab in Account settings, but I can’t seem to get the changes to take effect. Any thoughts?
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chris judge
They're learning a new language for sure. A year or so ago I showed my 20 year old nephew something cool, and he said it was sick. I said, what do you mean, sick. Apparently it's a new word to describe something cool, or awesome. When I was a kid being sick kept me out of school. Now, if kids get the opportunity to stay home from school, it's sick.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Carolyn Arnold Sent: March 9, 2020 12:32 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Blindschools shelter their students and don't prepear them for the sighted world What are kids learning? They don't learn history; they no longer diagram sentences; and now, they're not learning typing and computer skills? What are they learning? -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of chris judge Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 7:40 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Blindschools shelter their students and don't prepear them for the sighted world What scares me today, and this does not only pertain to blind children. Kids are not learning computers any more. They aren’t learning to properly type or spell. I know tablets and smart phones are the cats meow these days, but most work places still, and will likely continue to use computers for the foreseeable future. From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Josh Kennedy Sent: March 9, 2020 8:06 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Blindschools shelter their students and don't prepear them for the sighted world Don't feel bad mitch and everybody. I went to a mainstream public school with other sighted people and they did not teach me budgeting or how to pay bills there either.rather than teaching life skills, they would rather teach you algebra for 2 or 3 years and chemistry and physics even though most of us will not be advanced scientists or engineers. The whole education system needs to be redone I think. Why not teach practical life skills in middle and high school, high school especially. Why not teach people how to raise families and have marriages and stable successful families that build up society? The basics of martial arts for self-defense. How to responsibly manage money, take out loans, how banks work, how to pay bills and budget money, and more... And for critical thinking and logic classes? Rather than having everybody take algebra, calculus, trigonometry, chemistry, physics, stuff most people will not need. Replace those high school classes with philosophy and or philosophy appreciation classes. In other words have high school students read various greek and roman philosophers, everything from tomas aquinas to plato and others. And since most or about half of people drop out of college, rather than schools pushing college, why not encourage trade schools and identify student's strengths early? For example rather than sending me to college, my teachers should have identified that I am good at both braille and Spanish and other languages. So rather than pushing college, if I would have been those teachers I would have encouraged me to go to a vocational school, get a tech support certification and then a braille transcriber literary braille certification. Schools should set people up for success I think and teach life skills and other practical things as much as possible I think. Josh
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chris judge
Smile.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Carolyn Arnold Sent: March 9, 2020 12:30 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business LOL, pretty good, there's that! -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of chris judge Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 7:06 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business Next time someone asks you that say, heck no, he helps undress me. -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Carolyn Arnold Sent: March 8, 2020 6:23 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business As blind people, we have to be on guard to deflect condescension and out-right bullying. This morning a really nice lady at church asked me in the nicest voice, "does your husband help dress you?" I can think of a time, when I'd have been furious and might have totally ignored the question. She tweaked my beads and said, "you're always so color coordinated." Well, that is something I want to be, but I just told her thanks, that he does not, but is willing to answer any question I have about if this will go with that. The thing I have a hard time putting up with is, "do you know who I am?" I think that is passive bullying. So the last time someone asked me that, I laughed and countered, "what kind of a question is that? Do you go around asking people that?" -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of jan howells via Groups.Io Sent: Saturday, March 7, 2020 9:37 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business I always told by family members that I am dumb, stupid, and incompetent. I had no self esteem. My family still thinks that because I cannot see. I was always degraded by my family. My aunt got hollered at by the Seeing Eye. She cried and blamed me. I did not tell her to degrade in front of them and answer questions during my interview at the same time while I was answering my questions. That was very awkward and embarrassing. Jan
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Steven Johnson
Thank you Chris. That did the trick.
From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of chris judge
Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 8:16 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Outlook opening up to a specific inbox
Hi. I had to do this recently. Here’s what I did and it worked.
Go to options under the file menu. Arrow down to advanced and tab over to outlook start and exit. Browse to the mailbox you want to open to and chooss it. I didn’t go any where near my data file.
From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Steven Johnson
I have 2 email accounts, one for work and the other for personal email. By default, mine opens up to my work email’s inbox, but I would like to change it to open up with my personal one. I read where I have to change my default email under the data file tab as well as the email tab in Account settings, but I can’t seem to get the changes to take effect. Any thoughts?
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Rob Hudson
Carolyn Arnold <4carolyna@windstream.net> wrote:
Oh yes, and it really bothers some that we do well, like weIt's a variation on this business thing where one should rise to the station of one's incompetence, or something like that. You see it all the time in other groups. One should stick to one's station in life and not try to rise above it. We and other "subnormal" (note the quotes) people are supposed to stay marginlized, out of the way, and not make waves. It's even been legalized in such places as India and south africa.
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Carolyn Arnold
Oh yes, and it really bothers some that we do well, like we
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don't have the right to do anything as well or better than some with sight.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of Rob Hudson Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 10:53 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] and moreLearning to Budget Dave <dlh007@centurylink.net> wrote: Why is it that the General Public has such a Poorunderstanding about the capabilities of someone blind? You said it. Because they can't imagine how they, themselves, would cope. They have this mentality. If I can't figure it out, you can't either. This same mentality is what keeps us so unemployed, as well.
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Carolyn Arnold
Grumpy Dave, please tell us the answer to your question.
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Fortunately for me, I am more outgoing than my husband, so go a lot of places that he does not. He is not going to church now, however, and I still was asked that question. It does not happen as much though when I am on my own.
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of Dave Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 10:49 AM To: main@techtalk.groups.io Subject: [TechTalk] and moreLearning to Budget <Slight laugh> I know this might be hard to believe, but I've taken a number of Classes at the School of Hard Knocks. It's a fantastic school, and speaking for myself, I tend to exit those many classes, learning exactly what I should have learned years before. My Mother attempted to teach me to budget what little money I had, but I just didn't listen. I get my first Pay Check, which was for an entire Month. I never had that much money all at one time, and I couldn't wait to spend it. Went right out and bought two brand New Guitars, leaving me about $150 for the rest of the month. Needless to say, that month was a Month I still remember to this day. The next month, I didn't run out and buy a bunch of stuff. I put that next paycheck in the Bank and spent it according to what I needed to spend it on. Housing, Food, Gas, and Utilities. Then what was left over, I could spend on myself. As for having others ask who "Dresses you in the Morning- Yes, I too have had this question, and I just tell them, I dress myself. Which then causes them to ask other questions, like, do I cook for myself? Who does my Shopping? People are curious, and sometimes the bold ones will ask their questions. At least they ask and I can inform them with the correct answers. Do these questions bother me? Frankly Yes they do, but at the same time, these people have no idea what it is like to be blind. They just think about what they would do if they were suddenly needing to live without sight. I had a Seeing Eye Dog for about 4 years, and people actually treated me better when I had the Dog, but it would Piss me off when they gave the Dog credit for everything I did! Can't tell you how often I would have someone come up and tell me they had watched a Show about Seeing Eye Dogs on the TV, and how wonderful those Dogs are etc. And <Slight laugh> of course, now that I am married, my Wife gets the Credit for every Breath I inhale, what clothes I wear, and even if my Hair is combed. I have an answer for this next question, but I am not going to share it now. Why is it that the General Public has such a Poor understanding about the capabilities of someone blind? Grumpy Dave
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Pam:
I am lazy about cleaningalso, but not for the reason you stated. I am just sick of cleaning after having to do it for over 50 years. Hahahaha. I keep hoping a cleaning fairy will come in some time during the night and deal with it. Never happens though.
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Pamela Dominguez
You know, it's amazing how many people's own families are so out of touch with them and their capabilities, and what they do! Pam.
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From: Carolyn Arnold Sent: Sunday, March 08, 2020 6:36 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business Wow, your sister, of all people. -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of Monte Single Sent: Sunday, March 8, 2020 6:01 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business Hey Caroline, That made me laugh outloud, the first time in a few days, I think. I live alone, and my eldest sister still thinks I have someone come and cook for me. I tell her no, just to do the bathroom and floors. Yes, in some things I am a little lazy. -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of Carolyn Arnold Sent: March-08-20 3:23 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business As blind people, we have to be on guard to deflect condescension and out-right bullying. This morning a really nice lady at church asked me in the nicest voice, "does your husband help dress you?" I can think of a time, when I'd have been furious and might have totally ignored the question. She tweaked my beads and said, "you're always so color coordinated." Well, that is something I want to be, but I just told her thanks, that he does not, but is willing to answer any question I have about if this will go with that. The thing I have a hard time putting up with is, "do you know who I am?" I think that is passive bullying. So the last time someone asked me that, I laughed and countered, "what kind of a question is that? Do you go around asking people that?" -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of jan howells via Groups.Io Sent: Saturday, March 7, 2020 9:37 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business I always told by family members that I am dumb, stupid, and incompetent. I had no self esteem. My family still thinks that because I cannot see. I was always degraded by my family. My aunt got hollered at by the Seeing Eye. She cried and blamed me. I did not tell her to degrade in front of them and answer questions during my interview at the same time while I was answering my questions. That was very awkward and embarrassing. Jan -- This email has been checked for viruses by AVG. https://www.avg.com
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Carolyn Arnold
What are kids learning? They don't learn history; they no longer diagram sentences; and now, they're not learning typing and computer skills? What are they learning?
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of chris judge Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 7:40 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Blindschools shelter their students and don't prepear them for the sighted world What scares me today, and this does not only pertain to blind children. Kids are not learning computers any more. They aren’t learning to properly type or spell. I know tablets and smart phones are the cats meow these days, but most work places still, and will likely continue to use computers for the foreseeable future. From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Josh Kennedy Sent: March 9, 2020 8:06 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] Blindschools shelter their students and don't prepear them for the sighted world Don't feel bad mitch and everybody. I went to a mainstream public school with other sighted people and they did not teach me budgeting or how to pay bills there either.rather than teaching life skills, they would rather teach you algebra for 2 or 3 years and chemistry and physics even though most of us will not be advanced scientists or engineers. The whole education system needs to be redone I think. Why not teach practical life skills in middle and high school, high school especially. Why not teach people how to raise families and have marriages and stable successful families that build up society? The basics of martial arts for self-defense. How to responsibly manage money, take out loans, how banks work, how to pay bills and budget money, and more... And for critical thinking and logic classes? Rather than having everybody take algebra, calculus, trigonometry, chemistry, physics, stuff most people will not need. Replace those high school classes with philosophy and or philosophy appreciation classes. In other words have high school students read various greek and roman philosophers, everything from tomas aquinas to plato and others. And since most or about half of people drop out of college, rather than schools pushing college, why not encourage trade schools and identify student's strengths early? For example rather than sending me to college, my teachers should have identified that I am good at both braille and Spanish and other languages. So rather than pushing college, if I would have been those teachers I would have encouraged me to go to a vocational school, get a tech support certification and then a braille transcriber literary braille certification. Schools should set people up for success I think and teach life skills and other practical things as much as possible I think. Josh
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LOL, pretty good, there's that!
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From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of chris judge Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 7:06 AM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business Next time someone asks you that say, heck no, he helps undress me. -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io <main@TechTalk.groups.io> On Behalf Of Carolyn Arnold Sent: March 8, 2020 6:23 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business As blind people, we have to be on guard to deflect condescension and out-right bullying. This morning a really nice lady at church asked me in the nicest voice, "does your husband help dress you?" I can think of a time, when I'd have been furious and might have totally ignored the question. She tweaked my beads and said, "you're always so color coordinated." Well, that is something I want to be, but I just told her thanks, that he does not, but is willing to answer any question I have about if this will go with that. The thing I have a hard time putting up with is, "do you know who I am?" I think that is passive bullying. So the last time someone asked me that, I laughed and countered, "what kind of a question is that? Do you go around asking people that?" -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of jan howells via Groups.Io Sent: Saturday, March 7, 2020 9:37 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business I always told by family members that I am dumb, stupid, and incompetent. I had no self esteem. My family still thinks that because I cannot see. I was always degraded by my family. My aunt got hollered at by the Seeing Eye. She cried and blamed me. I did not tell her to degrade in front of them and answer questions during my interview at the same time while I was answering my questions. That was very awkward and embarrassing. Jan
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Re: warning if you doing business
Pamela Dominguez
Sometimes I am lazy with cleaning, because I always feel like it never comes out clean when I am done. Like, the floor. When it is wet, it feels like I did a nice job. When it's dry, it feels like it is still dirty, and it gets me mad to find I did all that work and still didn't get it clean. So, that tends to make me lazy. Pam.
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From: Monte Single Sent: Sunday, March 08, 2020 6:01 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business Hey Caroline, That made me laugh outloud, the first time in a few days, I think. I live alone, and my eldest sister still thinks I have someone come and cook for me. I tell her no, just to do the bathroom and floors. Yes, in some things I am a little lazy. -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of Carolyn Arnold Sent: March-08-20 3:23 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business As blind people, we have to be on guard to deflect condescension and out-right bullying. This morning a really nice lady at church asked me in the nicest voice, "does your husband help dress you?" I can think of a time, when I'd have been furious and might have totally ignored the question. She tweaked my beads and said, "you're always so color coordinated." Well, that is something I want to be, but I just told her thanks, that he does not, but is willing to answer any question I have about if this will go with that. The thing I have a hard time putting up with is, "do you know who I am?" I think that is passive bullying. So the last time someone asked me that, I laughed and countered, "what kind of a question is that? Do you go around asking people that?" -----Original Message----- From: main@TechTalk.groups.io [mailto:main@TechTalk.groups.io] On Behalf Of jan howells via Groups.Io Sent: Saturday, March 7, 2020 9:37 PM To: main@TechTalk.groups.io Subject: Re: [TechTalk] warning if you doing business I always told by family members that I am dumb, stupid, and incompetent. I had no self esteem. My family still thinks that because I cannot see. I was always degraded by my family. My aunt got hollered at by the Seeing Eye. She cried and blamed me. I did not tell her to degrade in front of them and answer questions during my interview at the same time while I was answering my questions. That was very awkward and embarrassing. Jan -- This email has been checked for viruses by AVG. https://www.avg.com
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Re: and moreLearning to Budget
Marie <magpie.mn@...>
I would like to put in my two cents about sighted people misunderstanding those of us who are blind. I feel that it is primarily because they have either never been in the company of a blind person or never had the opportunity to interact with same. Most people are merely curious and I, for one enjoy being able to enlighten them concerning what we are capable of doing. When I first learned that I had RP and would probably go totally blind at some point, my first thoughts were that my life was going to end because I would have to give up everything I enjoyed. Well, that just did not happen and at the advanced age of 77 I am still independent and capable of many things.
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I also believe that some visually impaired individuals go out expecting to be treated badly and so they are. Try going with a positive attitude and a friendly smile and most people will respond the same. I very seldom get treated badly and in fact, I have been treated surprisingly well, and find so many courteous and helpful sighted people. And this is more so when I am alone. I don't for one minute think I am anything special, just that I truly like people. And I realize that each of us has our different issues and experiences. I am not trying to preach but just giving my own ideas. Yes, I have had people who treated me as if I were mentally deficient or talked louder so perhaps I could "see" them. On the other hand I have had people who asked intelligent questions about my blindness and how I do different things. Thanks for listening to my rambles this morning. Marie
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From: Dave Sent: Monday, March 9, 2020 7:49 AM To: main@techtalk.groups.io Subject: [TechTalk] and moreLearning to Budget <Slight laugh> I know this might be hard to believe, but I've taken a number of Classes at the School of Hard Knocks. It's a fantastic school, and speaking for myself, I tend to exit those many classes, learning exactly what I should have learned years before. My Mother attempted to teach me to budget what little money I had, but I just didn't listen. I get my first Pay Check, which was for an entire Month. I never had that much money all at one time, and I couldn't wait to spend it. Went right out and bought two brand New Guitars, leaving me about $150 for the rest of the month. Needless to say, that month was a Month I still remember to this day. The next month, I didn't run out and buy a bunch of stuff. I put that next paycheck in the Bank and spent it according to what I needed to spend it on. Housing, Food, Gas, and Utilities. Then what was left over, I could spend on myself. As for having others ask who "Dresses you in the Morning- Yes, I too have had this question, and I just tell them, I dress myself. Which then causes them to ask other questions, like, do I cook for myself? Who does my Shopping? People are curious, and sometimes the bold ones will ask their questions. At least they ask and I can inform them with the correct answers. Do these questions bother me? Frankly Yes they do, but at the same time, these people have no idea what it is like to be blind. They just think about what they would do if they were suddenly needing to live without sight. I had a Seeing Eye Dog for about 4 years, and people actually treated me better when I had the Dog, but it would Piss me off when they gave the Dog credit for everything I did! Can't tell you how often I would have someone come up and tell me they had watched a Show about Seeing Eye Dogs on the TV, and how wonderful those Dogs are etc. And <Slight laugh> of course, now that I am married, my Wife gets the Credit for every Breath I inhale, what clothes I wear, and even if my Hair is combed. I have an answer for this next question, but I am not going to share it now. Why is it that the General Public has such a Poor understanding about the capabilities of someone blind? Grumpy Dave
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